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Nightlife

This Week in Nightlife

Thursday 2/18 Morning Laughter Pill // Richmond Comedy Coalition presents monthly improv hilarity. 8 p.m., $7
Gallery5, 200 W. Marshall St.

Thursday 2/18 Lady Bunny // Nationally known drag performer stops by Nations for a cabaret show. 6:30-9 p.m., $10 in advance, $15 at the door.
Nations, 2729 W. Broad St.

Friday, 2/19 & Saturday 2/20 Rocky Horror // See Rocky, Magenta and the gang with a live cast. $7.50. Show starts at midnight with pre-show prior.
Movieland, 1301 North Boulevard

Saturday 2/20 Alix Dobkin in Concert // Women’s music pioneer who helped produce the first album by, for and about Lesbians takes the Gay Community Center stage. 8 p.m. $15 in advance, $20 at the door.
Gay Community Center of Richmond, 1407 Sherwood Avenue

Saturday 2/20 Miss Godfrey’s 2010 // Join Miss Godfrey’s 2009 Lawanda Jackson as she crowns Miss Godfrey’s 2010., Doors at 9 p.m., 18+, $10.
Godfrey’s, 308 E. Grace St.

Sunday 2/21 Sweet Stuff // Esta Bunny brings her Estavaganza to Babes of Carytown with lots of sugar. 8 p.m. – 11 p.m., No cover, 21+
Babes of Carytown, 3166 W Cary St

For more of what’s going on, visit our Nightlife Guide at gayrva.com/nightlife.

This Week In Nightlife

With Valentine’s Day on Sunday, look at all the love happening around Richmond this week.

Friday 2/12 Happy Hour Benefiting GCCR // Step over to Church Hill to enjoy drinks as the private 2300 Club opens its doors for this fundraiser.  6 p.m. – 9 p.m.
2300 Club, 2220 E. Grace St.

Friday 2/12 Sweethearts for the Arts // This fundraiser for Arts on Wheels features burlesque from top performers around town as well as drag, live music, and dinner auctions.  8 p.m., $15,
Gallery5, 200 W. Marshall St.

Saturday 2/13 To Richmond, With Love // The girls of Richmond Varietease hand out bottles of Love Potion #9 during their monthly burlesque performance.  Doors at 8, show starts at 9 p.m., 21+., $10
Canal Club, 1545 E. Cary St.

Saturday 2/13 Valentine’s Day Dinner // Enjoy special menu offerings for $35/couple, 6 pm-10pm.  Call 804.648.2040 for reservations.
Barcode, 6 E. Grace St.

Saturday 2/13 Love Equality Style Dance // Part of a weekend lineup in support of marriage equality.  MCC Richmond and the Gay Community Center host a dance party from 8 p.m. – midnight. $10, $15 for couples.
Gay Community Center of Richmond, 1407 Sherwood Avenue

Sunday 2/14 Faces of Nations Caberet Show // Esta Bunny hosts  a romantic evening of dinner and drag.  Call 804.257.9891 for reservations. 6:30 – 9:30 p.m.
Nations, 2729 W. Broad St.

Sunday 2/14 Red & White Ball // Your Sunday Barcode karaoke with door prizes, munchies, and a champagne toast. 8 p.m. until.
Barcode, 6 E. Grace St.

For more on what’s going on around Richmond, checkout our nightlife guide at http://gayrva.com/nightlife.

This Week In Nightlife

Friday, 2/5 A Party For The Rest Of US // WRIR Richmond Independent Radio celebrates five years with performances from the Hot Damns, Amazing Ghost, and more.  7 p.m. – 11:55 p.m. Suggested $10 Donation.
Renaissance Ballroom, 107 W. Broad St.

Friday, 2/5 & Saturday 2/6 Rocky Horror // See Rocky, Magenta and the gang with a live cast.  $7.50. Show starts at midnight with pre-show prior.
Movieland, 1301 North Boulevard

Saturday, 2/6 Intermission // GayRVA hosts “Intermission” as part of Reel Pride Richmond.  10% of all food sales benefit ROSMY, 6 p.m. – 8 p.m., Free.
The Camel, 1621 W. Broad St.

Sunday, 2/7 Super Bowl Party // Watch the game, enjoy drinks and specials starting at 6 p.m.
Barcode, 6 E. Grace St.

For more on what’s going on around Richmond, checkout our nightlife guide at http://gayrva.com/nightlife.

A Gay Edict for Straight Bars

Editor’s Note: This Op/Ed piece comes from Cameron Parker

I’d rather go to a bar in Shockoe Slip than go to a downtown gay bar any night of the week.  Not all of the LGBT community feels the same way, though.  That’s not to say that self-segregation is a regular practice in the community; for the most part, Richmond’s minority groups are all very adept to being involved in many of the various nightlife scenes in my estimation.  Nevertheless, there’s still a certain curiosity as to why typical non-niche bars often fail to attract gay customers, and why gay bars may seem too exclusive for a heterosexual patronage.

Why should straight bars try to reel in the gays?  Well, for several reasons.  Although the Richmond bar scene is already pretty progressive, it seems to be timidly so.  When Richmonders feel comfortable in their drinking environment, word spreads like wildfire and people flock to those bars.  By showing a commitment to minority groups with a roar rather than a whisper, local establishments will speak volumes of their commitment to inclusivity.

Beyond social justifications, there are very clear monetary motivations to reach out to the gay community.  Some studies suggest that the levels of alcohol consumption among members of the LGBT community may be significantly higher than those among heterosexuals.  Accordingly, appealing to a gay clientele could have an evident bright economic incentive for local establishments.

The socioeconomic determinants being clear, I feel that we, the LGBT community, should task Richmond bar establishments with being more vocal about their support for gays as an integral part of nightlife.  It seems to be nothing but a mutually beneficial idea: the gay community will feel comfortable enough to expand its horizons, and the bar community will benefit from a more comprehensive image.

Cameron Parker is one of the creators of OMGWTFRVA.net where he shares thoughts on nightlife and other Richmond happenings.

New In The Nightlife Guide

Nacho Mama’s keeps the doors open late.  Pageants at Fieldens.  Drag queens stilt walking at Babes.  And LGBT Professionals Meetup for a laugh.  Read more in our Nightlife guide, updated weekly.

Friday 1/15 Mama’s After Dark // Meet and mingle over margaritas from 10 p.m – 2 a.m.  This is the first of an ongoing series of late-nights the 3rd Friday of each month.
Nacho Mama’s, 3449 W. Cary St.

Saturday 1/16 Miss Fieldens 2010 // Who will claim the crown?  Will it be Natasha Carrington? Zoe Vuitton? Or another local diva?  Doors at Midnight, Pageant starts at 1 AM.  Members $5, non-members $10.  Open to the public.
Fieldens, 2033 W. Broad St.

Sunday 1/17 Three Ring Estavaganza // Esta Bunny and her circus entertain at Babes.  Stilt walking, acrobatics, and more. 8 p.m. showtime. Free.  21+
Babes, 3166 W. Cary St.

Thursday 1/21 FÜNDERSTORM // The Richmond Comedy Coalition hosts a live improv comedy show.  The Richmond LGBT professionals also join in for their Meetup.  $7.  Doors at 7:15 PM Show starts at 8 PM.
Gallery5, 200 W. Marshall St.

Friday 1/22 Family & Friends Fourth Friday // Julie McCoy and crew take over the 8th floor of the Miller & Rhoads Condos at this monthly gathering.  Two bars open benefiting the Richmond Triangle Players. Free.
Miller & Rhoads Residences, 230 North 6th St.

Saturday 1/23 Bear Night // The 495 Bears take a trip down I-95 to Nations, 9 p.m. – 2 a.m.  $5, 21+
Nations, 2729 W. Broad St.

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